Hi there ❤
Welcome to the first official post of NEW Sparkling Letters!! I know I said that this will no longer be a book blog, but I kinda feel like I should start the post with something bookish as a warm up 😉
Since I started working in 2017, I read less and less over time. I just got busy with life and parenting and I just… stopped reading. I felt that I’ve got no time to read for fun. I read for my daughter but I stopped reading for myself. WHICH IS SAD. That’s why since end of 2022, I tried to go back to reading regularly, and now that I got myself a BIG bookshelves and a kindle, it all becomes easier to read regularly.
Last year I read quite a lot of books even if I still didn’t achieve my 2023 reading goals of 20 books, but this year I set a higher goals of 40 books and I’m already 55% to achieve my goals 😀
It’s not a lengthy review like it used to be, but I want to share some highlights on the books I had been reading so far. Buckle up because this is gonna be a looong post!!
Diving into non fictions.
When I first got back to reading, it was through non fiction books, especially parenting books. As a new mom, there was sooo many things to learn about breast feeding, complimentary feeding, baby sleep, read aloud, etc etc. I joined several seminars and watched youtube videos, but I know I learn best through reading so I started to read books on parentings.
There are so many good ones out there!! Not just from theoretical perspectives but also laced with personal experience from the authors. Here are some titles that I read lately:
- The Whole Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel : This book is about balancing between a child’s left & right brain and front & back brain. There are sample stories and strategies to deal with children such as: when they are in tantrum, their part of brain that deals with logical reasoning completely shuts down so there is no use trying to reason with tantrum kids, or that when a child is too logical (left-brain), we need to get them to focus on feelings (right-brain). I get the idea, but the way it was written was too boring for me. Took a while to finish this one.
- The Read Aloud Family by Sarah Mackenzie : I love love this one so much. As a big reader myself who have started reading for my daughter since birth, I feel so happy to read this book and know sooo many benefits from reading aloud for children. It’s not just about the speech, but reading aloud helps children to maintain focus, understand new concept, build healthy reading habits, and especially bond with their parents ❤ if you are new parents, I suggest you to read this.
- The Read Aloud Handbook by Jim Trelease (8th edition) : Sarah Mackenzie wrote her book based on this book, the original book on read aloud. This one provides many example & benefits of reading aloud from research perspectives. I love the theory about vocabulary in this book. The more we read to our children (listening), the more speaking, reading, and writing vocabularies they will have later.
- The Gentle Parenting & other books by Sarah Ockwell Smith : There are a lot of gentle parenting series books written by this author. I almost have all of the books, but what I love the most are:
- The Gentle Sleep Book – I was so stressed out by daughter’s sleeping pattern but this book provides so many insights for me. I wish I had read it during pregnancy.
- The Starting School Book – I’m so confused about starting school but this book has helped me made a decision on when to start pre-school for my daughter ❤
- Calmer Easier Happier Books by Noel Janis-Norton : I have two books from this series: Calmer Easier Happier Parenting & Screen Time. I love all the strategies from this book, they’re all applicable although only for some amount of time (because then I forgot to apply the strategies again hehe). The main focus of both books rely on how to build cooperative kids — kids that do what we ask them to do without fuss.
Aside from non fiction parenting books, I also tried to read about general non fic, especially those related to relationships & marriage. But there was 1 book that I like the most.
- How to be Perfect by Michael Schur : This book explores how to live a good life from philosophical point of view, written in a fun & sarcastic way. This book is so much fun, it feels light even if it talks about ‘heavy’ topics. I didn’t understand about existentialism when I learned philosophy in college, but I understand now from reading this book. The key to reading this book is just to read through it — do not think too much!!
- Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix : This book talks about marital relationship but it feels to psychoanalytic for my logical brain 😀
- The State of Affairs by Esther Perel : I have mixed feelings about this book but I’m not feeling comfortable discussing this too deeply, so I’ll just say that this book offers a new perspective and it’s something good to learn for me. Too many repetitions though.
Back to My Favorite Genre: Fantasy
Fantasy has always been my favorite genre, but I felt not in the right mind to read fantasy for a while now. Fantasy books are looong and require readers to memorize the world building and the rules of the books and the names. I started off by re-reading The Bear in the Nightingale by Katherine Arden and it was so good I immediately ordered the next 2 books. Then I started reading some books from my fave authors which were on kindle sale!!
- The Winternight Trilogy by Katherine Arden has become 1 of my favorite series ever. I love the writing, the world building, the characters, I even love the cold winter vibe radiating from the book.
- The Girl in the Tower : 5 out of 5 stars, the stakes & tension are so high in this book.
- The Winter of the Witch : A good conclusion to the trilogy, even though the last book might be a little too complicated, I still enjoyed every bits and satisfied with the ending.
- Babel by RF Kuang : Love the world building of this awesome book. I love almost everything from the premise, the MC, the friendship, the plot twist, I even enjoy all the lectures about translation & languages!!
- Ninth House by Leigh Bardugo : Another dark academia book I read this year. I think this one is DARK and BIZZARE. At first, it was difficult for me to understand what this is about, what are the societies, what is Lethe, what kind of magic they perform, etc. The world building was honestly difficult to grasp so for the first few chapters although afterward this get better and the plot becomes so interesting. The ending was very twisty, but I’m looking forward to read the next book soon.
- The Fragile Threads of Power by VE Schwab : I was so excited to know there’s a whole new series in the Shades of Magic!! I read as soon as possible but I cannot remember many things from ADSOM 🤣The book started slow with introducing new characters, re-introducing old characters, some background stories & fill us in what happened between ACOL to this book, and careful & intricate world building as usual. I admit I got impatient at first but 20% in and it finally got SO GOOD. I love Kell, Rhy, I even like Lila a lot this year and all the new characters are interesting as well.
- Daughter of the Moon Goddess by Sue Lynn Tan : It took so much willpower & commitment for me to finally finish this book. It has so much promise because the plot is interesting, but it was not well-written, especially the characters and the chemistry between them so it felt so flat. 2.5 Stars for me and I’m not sure I would read the sequel </3
YA & Adult Fiction for a quick read
This is my comfort genre where I can just read without thinking too much and I know (most of the time) it will end happily 😛 Most of the books I read were from kindle deals.
- As Long as The Lemon Tree Grows by Zoulfa Katouh : My absolute favorite ❤ I love this book so so much it’s so heartbreaking and beautiful. I love the writing, the characters, and reading this in the middle of Palestine genocide makes it even more heartbreaking. I finished this in less than 24 hours, that’s how good this book is!!
- The Kiss Quotient series by Helen Hoang : All 3 books are so fun and nuanced. I love all the love stories especially book 1 & 3.
- Out of the Easy by Ruta Sepetys : I re-read Salt to the Sea last year and suddenly I love Ruta Sepetys writing so much. This is a historical fiction but it feels like your contemporary YA novel. It’s page turner and easy to read and I feel like I’m reading a usual teen heroine, only this was set in 1954 New Orleans which had this dangerous vibe.
- Taylor Jenkins Reid’s Novels – Carrie Soto is Back, After I Do, and Forever Interrupted. I love her writing so much, it’s so easy to read I can finish each of her book in 1 day. I love Carrie Soto & After I Do but Forever Interrupted — not at all.
- Love, Life, and the List by Kasie West : I used to love Kasie West’s books especially The Distance Between Us, On the Fence, and PS I Like You back when I read them 8 years ago, but I guess I’m getting tired by the formula. I quite like Abby in this book but I don’t feel her chemistry with Cooper and I didn’t root for them.
Exploring Japanese Literature
This is definitely a whole new genre for me. I read Haruki Murakami’s books years ago but it felt too heavy, now when I get back into reading suddenly I see J-Lit books everywhere!! Young readers are talking about them on X and it made me curious. After reading several books, I noticed some things in common : there’s this vibe that reminds me of chill anime songs, like Ghibli, there’s no big & tense plot, and it’s usually slow pace and only involve a handful of characters.
- Sweet Bean Paste by Durian Sukegawa : This feels like ordinary book but it’s deep & profound you can just feel the sadness from this book. It’s about an old woman with a sickness & a man who makes dorayaki for a living.
- Days at the Morisaki Bookshop by Satoshi Yagisawa : It’s a healing story about a woman who just broke up with his boyfriend, finding solace in a bookshop where she found lost family, new friendship, and blooming love.
- Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka Murata : Talks about a woman with autism who works in convenience store for a long time because that’s where she can be the best. It tackles issues on society’s expectation on adulthood : work full time, get married, and have babies. I like the concept but the writing felt too weird.
- The Miracles of the Namiya General Store by Keigo Higashino : This has a little bit of fantasy element about a store who receives consultation for personal problems. I swear it’s the most talked about book on LitBase but I still haven’t got to finish it 😦
Last but not least, Local Indonesian Books.
I admit I haven’t ready many local books lately but few that I read are absolutely GOOD ❤ These books are written by 2 of my favorite female authors and they never disappoint.
- Laut Bercerita by Leila S. Chudori : I love Leila’s previous book “Pulang” and I fell in love with her writings again through this book. This talks about one of the darkest tragedy in Indonesia, penculikan para aktivis di tahun 1998. Although it’s a heavy topic, it’s still a page turner, enjoyable, and I didn’t realize I had reach the end of the story. It’s emotional & heartbreaking and an important read for all Indonesians.
- RAPIJALI by Dee Lestari : I can say this is the lightest book by Dee (if we compare to Supernova & Aroma Karsa) but I like this so much. It’s about a country girl with musical talent who comes to the city because of some family issues. There, she created a band with her school friends. It’s supposed to be simple, but I don’t know how Dee can write it into a beautiful stories about dreams, friendship, romance, mental health issues, and family ❤
Alright everyone, we are finally at the end of my post. When I started writing, I didn’t realize it would be THIS LONG to try to summarize all the books I read since last year 🤣
Have you read any of the books I shared in this post? Let me know what you think ❤